We took a few weeks off due to the Hurricanes and we are excited to continue our life development series #4Elements below.
Lets start this off with the hardest thing for people to understand:
Nothing others do is because of you.
It’s true. If someone is bringing drama into your life by spreading drama or gossip about you – it’s more about you than them. Trust me, everyone has something in their closet they don’t want people to see. How do you keep it covered up? Start deflecting attention away from yourself and onto someone else.
What others say or do is a projection of their own reality.
There is a section of our motto that says: “I was made in the image of perfection, those who stand in judgement should check their own reflection.”
How do you overcome all of this?
Of course things are easier said than done. Many people proclaim not to care about what others think about them, yet Facebook proves that’s a lie.
When you become immune to the options and actions of others, you won’t be the victim of needless suffering.
Just like getting an immunization from the doctor, your body only becomes immune to things after it has been put inside you so that it knows what it has to fight off.
It’s going to take some time, but if you keep working at it, you will learn how not to take things other people say or do personally. It’s just one of the #4Elements to finding peace in your life.